If, at 40, your spouse gets his/her first tattoo, does that mean he/she is tramping it up?

What do you think? You should know her better than the people who answer this, but sometimes it seems like you hardly know her at all. It does sound as though she has a bit of a wild side to her. Whether this means she is ready to "tramp it up" or not is anyone's guess. Unless she always wears any tops that don't show the back of her shoulder in public, I don't see how she can say no one will see it. I personally don't care for tattoos, but a lot of people do. Your wife is one of those people who like them and she is probably very proud of it. This is just my opinion, but my first thoughts when I read this were negative. If you two were serious about getting back together, this is something that most people would at least tell their spouse about before they went out and got it. It seems as though you both are biding your time in this reconciliation attempt and that it isn't being taken seriously by either of you. I think what you are really wondering is whether she is taking up with Timdawg again.